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Helen Yglesias

31 Mar 2008 08:35 am

I haven't really known what to say about this, but my maternal grandmother, Helen Yglesias, died early Friday morning. It's a sad thing to have happen, but she was an old woman (born in 1915), had been ailing, and went peacefully and comfortably after a full and successful life. Like my father and his father, she was a writer and published several novels after an unusually late debut in her fifties. Previously, she worked at literary editor at The Nation so you can see that the family is slowly moving right and selling out over time.

There are a couple of brief biographies available online for those who are interested here and here though of course it's always slightly bizarre to read a "professional" account of someone like your own grandmother who you came to know and love at an early age when you didn't know anything about this sort of thing. Nevertheless, she led a fairly inspiring life when you get right down to it, always committed to her passions.

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During her five years (1965 to 1969) as the literary editor of The Nation, she became convinced she had the ability to write as well as, if not better than, many of the authors whose work she reviewed. She subsequently resigned her position and became a full-time writer.

Many readers have had that feeling, but she acted on it. Good for her.

Sorry to read this. My condolences.

And is fifty really THAT late a start? It's getting closer and closer for me...hope there's still hope!

My condolences, Matt. Sounds like she was pretty awesome.

Sorry for your loss.


My condolences to you and your family. To the extent you believe in this sort of thing--and I do--it looks like you have good genes for both longevity and prose.

(No, I don't believe in a "prose gene" but rather some genetic component to intelligence...)

93! that's a great long life.

She sounds like a great lady. My condolences to you and your family.

I second KathyF. As I dip my toes in the authorial waters at the tender age of 44, I will hold Helen as a inspiration (having passed Michener's age at debut.) Very life affirming.

Condolences.

Sorry for your loss.

My condolences. Hers was a long and productive life. Wasn't she your paternal grandmother?

Condolences, Matthew. Your grandmother's novel Sweetsir made quite a stir when it came out and quite an impact on me when I read it - it begins with an unforgettable scene in which a woman kills her husband with a kitchen knife as he's beating her. I remember also an essay of Helen's about being discouraged from writing at an early age. Sorry to hear that Helen has passed.

My condolences.

Grandmother was always waiting at the farmhouse door, no matter how late we drove in. She'd hug and kiss us. 4 visits a year for 20 years while you're growing up.

Dear God.

Matthew: Condolences. My mother, also born in 1915, enjoyed your grandmother's novels.

Condolences on your loss, Matthew.

If she was your maternal grandmother, how does she have the same last name as you? Did she coincidentally have the same last name as your paternal grandfather?

If she was your maternal grandmother, how does she have the same last name as you? Did she coincidentally have the same last name as your paternal grandfather?

If she was your maternal grandmother, how does she have the same last name as you? Did she coincidentally have the same last name as your paternal grandfather?

Matt, sincerest condolences.

No matter what professionals may say, you will always have a picture and memory of her that is yours alone. Cherish it.

My condolences. "She was an old woman (born in 1915), had been ailing, and went peacefully and comfortably after a full and successful life" is the obituary for which we all hope.

Very sorry for you and your family. It was tough when I lost my grandmother as well. Hopefully you've spent a lot of time with family talking about great memories.

Editor of The Nation? So you definitely have the liberal gene!

My condolences, Matt. She indeed sounds awesome.

Sorry, Matt.

A touching tribute.

My deepest condolences, Matt. I had no clue that HY was your grandmother -- I used to work for her publisher and know how highly she was regarded as both a writer and a person. My dealings on her behalf were always pleasant.


My condolences to you and the rest of your family, MY.

I'm very sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and yours.

My deepest condolences to your family.

she must have been so proud of you

My grandparents went in their 90s, after a great life and a final struggling fade, and I am not that sure condolences are the only appropriate way to express empathy. No criticism intended. It is a life completed, maybe like finishing a novel:a sense of loss, relief, celebration of the life lived.

Never listen to the assholes who condemn you for your advantages, Matt. Wealth is the least of them. You have an awesome family.

My condolences.

And, if you click through to the (interesting) bios, you'll see that "maternal" is indeed a typo.

My condolences.

She would always be proud of the stellar work of her grandson.

My condolences. 93 is indeed a good age, though - my grandparents all went in their 60s and I still regret not having had more time with them.

As for the age of writers: I recall writers in their early to mid 40s being referred to as "young writers" over here in Europe at least. Thomas Mann wrote the Buddenbrooks at the age of 25, but that only proves his genius.

She sounds like a really cool lady. What a gift to have had her as your Grandmother. My condolences.

My condolences.

She sounds quite impressive and inspiring.

My condolences for your loss Matt.

Condolences, Matt.

Condolences, Matt. She sounds like a fascinating person.

sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

My condolences, Matt.

Condolences.

Sorry for your and your family's loss.

I'm sorry, Matt. My condolences to you and your family.

I'm very sorry for your loss.

I'm very sorry for your loss.

Very sorry for your loss.

Beyond the facts of unconditional love of a grandparent, gosh, a native New Yorker born in 1915--treasure the fact that you even knew her and the tales of what she saw. Even if she had accomplished a small percentage of what she did, she would still be a treasure. Keep her memories that she bestowed on you alive.

went peacefully and comfortably

Believe me, this is no small thing, never have a second of shame in taking solace from it.

I'm very sorry to read about your loss, Matt.

As a New Yorker who moved to Maine nearly a dozen years ago, I'm sorry I never met your grandmother. I found her observations of my new home very perceptive. Here is a passage from Startings (1978):

"Rural life displays its exquisite exterior view of unspoiled elegant simplicity, but this enchanting coating 'straight out of central casting,' is a cover for an underpattem of complex and frightening problems. Maine suffers one of the highest rates of unemployment in the country; there is insufficient industry, no public transportation, mediocre schools; and the spread between the poor and the rich is as wide as that in any undeveloped country. The spread between their interests and intimate knowledge of one another is even wider. The farmhouses dotting the Maine landscape and inhabited by locals are seen as places in which 'nothing ever happens.' On the contrary, a subterranean, unreported life of intense social melodrama exists alcoholism, incest, illicit love, illegitimacy, homosexuality, madness, a high incidence of feeble-mindedness; violent and lasting family ruptures; couple-switching; drugs, vandalism and rebelliousness among adolescents-in a setting where the ratio of living space to human beings should insure a bucolic peace and soaring mental health statistics. (A recent study contrasted a section of New York City residents with the natives of a small village in Nova Scotia, measuring for contentment, stability, mental health. The New Yorkers came out way ahead.) Yet Pilgrims fleeing what they have experienced as the ugliness and madness of urban life continue to pour into Maine searching to be 'born again' (and into Vermont and Oregon and other spots), seeking a new road to community, personal joy, fulfillment-and social good."

I'll add my condolences to the list. You have an accomplished and interesting family.

Hey Matt,

Just read this. Grandma would have loved what you said and all the comments back to you. Very nice! Tamar

Hey Matt,

Just read this. Grandma would have loved what you said and all the comments back to you. Very nice! Tamar

Hey Matt,

I just read this. Grandma would have loved what you said and all the comments back to you. Very nice! Tamar

I am writing a book about Helen Yglesias, Jose Yglesias, Warren Miller, Charles Humboldt (Clarence Weinstock), Annette Rubinstein, and others who comprised their Left-wing circle in the 1950s. I was fortunate enough to conduct interviews with Jose, Helen, and Annette, before they passed away, and more recently Helen's close friend Elaine Sorel. I have also seen manuscript collections at Boston University (Yglesias), Tamiment (Rubinstein), and Yale (Humboldt). I would be grateful if anyone can point me to additional sources of information regarding their lives, work, politics--especially archival sources. In addition, I would like to be able to use photographs of these individuals, and am hoping that someone can help me get access to ones taken by Bernard Cole, Helen's first husband. Some of these appeared on book jackets.

Alan Wald
H. Chandler Davis Collegiate Professor
English Literature and American Culture
University of Michigan
Ann Arbor, MI 4r8109-1003
awald@umich.edu

I am writing a book about Helen Yglesias, Jose Yglesias, Warren Miller, Charles Humboldt (Clarence Weinstock), Annette Rubinstein, and others who comprised their Left-wing circle in the 1950s. I was fortunate enough to conduct interviews with Jose, Helen, and Annette, before they passed away, and more recently Helen's close friend Elaine Sorel. I have also seen manuscript collections at Boston University (Yglesias), Tamiment (Rubinstein), and Yale (Humboldt). I would be grateful if anyone can point me to additional sources of information regarding their lives, work, politics--especially archival sources. In addition, I would like to be able to use photographs of these individuals, and am hoping that someone can help me get access to ones taken by Bernard Cole, Helen's first husband. Some of these appeared on book jackets.

Alan Wald
H. Chandler Davis Collegiate Professor
English Literature and American Culture
University of Michigan
Ann Arbor, MI 4r8109-1003
awald@umich.edu

I am writing a book about Helen Yglesias, Jose Yglesias, Warren Miller, Charles Humboldt (Clarence Weinstock), Annette Rubinstein, and others who comprised their Left-wing circle in the 1950s. I was fortunate enough to conduct interviews with Jose, Helen, and Annette, before they passed away, and more recently Helen's close friend Elaine Sorel. I have also seen manuscript collections at Boston University (Yglesias), Tamiment (Rubinstein), and Yale (Humboldt). I would be grateful if anyone can point me to additional sources of information regarding their lives, work, politics--especially archival sources. In addition, I would like to be able to use photographs of these individuals, and am hoping that someone can help me get access to ones taken by Bernard Cole, Helen's first husband. Some of these appeared on book jackets.

Alan Wald
H. Chandler Davis Collegiate Professor
English Literature and American Culture
University of Michigan
Ann Arbor, MI 4r8109-1003
awald@umich.edu


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