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Who's Rich?

12 Mar 2008 04:25 pm

It's always interesting to ask about people's subjective definitions of "rich" and an interesting token of how class-stratified we've become as a society that so many people in the top twenty percent of the income distribution tend not to think of themselves as rich.

That said, annual family income is a pretty crude metric of people's financial situation. The bottom end of the income distribution chart includes a lot of retired people, who aren't necessarily poor in any intuitive sense. Down there at the bottom you've also got a certain number of students and people in apprentice-like jobs (entry-level positions at political magazines) that they're expected to quickly transition out of. As a result, while $88,000 a year is good enough to put you in the top twenty percent, it's not nearly good enough to put you in the top twenty percent of real grownups (say, people over 25) who have full-time jobs. And of course wealth matters here as well. There's a difference between someone earning $88,000 a year and someone who's the beneficiary of a trust fund that pays out $88,000 a year. There's also a difference between earning $88,000 a year free and clear and earning $88,000 a year while trying to pay off college and law school debts.

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If your parents can afford to send you to an Ivy-league school for four years without any aid, you might not be rich, but you're damn comfortable.

I'm RICH, bitch!

Rich is being able to afford $1,000/hour hookers.

(That means you, Clinton superdelegate!)

Maybe you're trying to get at it in the last sentence, but cost of living matters too.

There is a writer in the center for the American Progress or at the DLC (Sorry, I don't remember) who in a previous discussion with Matt had provided the details about how the young and the old tend to skew the statistics on the low level.

Matt should be familiar with whom I am talking about. Does anyone else remember? I ve been looking for this info for months.

I generally define the "upper class" as people who can maintain a relatively high standard of living with only the income from their wealth (not including pensions, 401Ks, IRAs, and so on). Necessarily, this depends on things like what you consider to be a relatively high standard of living, the local cost of living, whether your home is owned or rented, expected returns, your age, whether you want to leave a legacy, and so on. But roughly speaking, around $1-5 million in income-producing wealth should do the trick in most circumstances.

But "rich"? I get the sense that many people think of "rich" as being defined on the expenditure side more than the income or wealth side, so it doesn't matter where the money is coming from (a job, investment income, a sugar daddy/momma, an actual daddy/momma, fraud, a line of credit, or so on). You just have to be living the high life and you are rich.

The answer to this question is really quite simple:

"Rich" isn't a question of income; it's a question of net worth. Income is irrelevant if you're sitting on a pile of $200M.

People focus on incomes because there is good data, due to the tax code. The data on wealth is terrible.

Yes, Matthew. Income data are a poor measure of standard of living and economic well-being. Wage data are even more misleading. Conservatives and libertarians understand this. Liberals don't.

Let's not forget about geography -- an annual income that would you make the richest person in a small midwestern town might only subsidize a middle class lifestyle in Manhattan...

I remember reading something four or eight years that was meant to prove that Republican policies would help anyone earning over $380,000 and hurt anyone making less. So I'll call income over $400,000 rich. In any case, this $157,000 top 5% income is definitely not rich even for a single person - which demonstrates how much the top one percent have hogged for themselves recently.

I think "rich" needs to be adjusted for residency and cost of living. Making $100K per year in Des Moines is a lot different than making it in New York City. You can barely live in New York at that salary, but you will be very comfortable in Des Moines. I think the definition of rich should be this: Can you afford the annual fee at the nearest private golf course? If you can, you're rich. If not, you're not.

The problem with the concept of "rich" is that it doesn't make much sense to treat people who make $100,000 a year and people who make $100 million a year as being in the same class.

"how class-stratified we've become as a society"

I don't believe there's ever been a capitalist society in which the top 20% in income distribution think of themselves as rich. Well-off people in far more class-stratified societies than ours did not and do not consider themselves to be rich.

Read any novel of middle-class life: Jane Austin, or Thackeray, or Trollope, or Balzac, or Tolstoy, or William Dean Howells, or Cheever, or Updike, or Doris Lessing, or Vikram Seth. You'll see that well into the upper reaches of the upper middle class, people with incomes many times that of the average person do not consider themselves to be rich.

The line between rich and non-rich, as the upper middle class has always conceived of it, is easy to see: if you have to work to maintain your standard of living (or if you're a woman and your husband has to work to maintain the family standard of living), you are not rich, no matter how much disposable income you have. Rich people may work for personal gratification or from a puritanical sense that not working is immoral (e.g., Warren Buffett), but people who would see their standard of living fall if they stopped working are not rich.

This is just human nature. Money is like crack. The minute you get it you start wondering how you can get more.

If thousands of years ago Thag sat in his cave and thought, "Wow. I have a woman, a fire, and a hunk of meat, this is the fucking high life!" progress would have stopped and we wouldn't be able to afford high class prostitutes and wars of choice.

This is always an interesting discussion, but holy shit is it subjective. For example, I like your 'seat of the plaid golf pants' metric, fostert, but 100K to barely live on in NYC? Maybe with a stay at home spouse and two kids and no health insurance, but really. When I moved to NYC as a new grad eight years ago, I did fine overpaying for my first apartment (in shitty part of Brooklyn) and making 30K. I was single. I wasn't paying for my health insurance. I didn't have a car. I wasn't going out every night with my consultant friends to the latest financial-crowd hotspot. Like I say, very very relative.
It is interesting to see how touchy people get, tho'. (I'm not rich! Cost of living! Damn you trust funders!)

There's a difference between someone earning $88,000 a year and someone who's the beneficiary of a trust fund that pays out $88,000 a year

I thought the $88,000 a year included any trust income (which is probably ordinary income for tax purposes), and that the person Matt describes would be considered as having a $176,000 income for these purposes. I'd think that the studies of income would treat it that way, but I'm no expert.

But look. I raised my kids in a New York neighborhood in which the average household income is about $32,000 a year, while we were making between $150,000 and $225,000 a year, depending on circumstances. I always told my kids we were rich, compared to most folks, and you can be damn sure we were, even in New York. (Even though we paid for about 15 years of private schools, and for full tuition college, which made us feel not so rich.) As a result, thank god, my kids are not spoiled rotten. Lots of people I know making $150,000 to $225,000 think they aren't rich, and they are spoiled rotten.

By the way, I've followed a Brooklyn website dealing with real estate and seen commenters claiming that people could not possibly raise a family in New York on $32,000 per year. Seems that they do, however, pretty regularly.

Oh heck, I was probably misreading Matt in that $88,000 line above, so forget that part of what I said. The rest stands, however.

Income is a terrible measure of wealth. Much better is assets. Gross assets meaning assets minus liabilities. For most of history assets were the measure of wealth. Before there was money there were the rich and powerful, because of their assets.

Sometimes income and asset numbers are mixed up when discussing these issues and that muddies things up terribly.

There are plenty of young adults and middle aged adults earing $40K a year who live well because their parents or grandparents have asset wealth, and share it and their income with them, (The nice house(s), cars, clothes, toys, etc.)

Just as importantly they stand to inherit that wealth. The knowledge of that coming inheritance is possibly the most important determinant of how individuals think of themselves class wise. If you KNOW your going to be secure in the future it takes a huge burden off of you in many many ways. Not that people don't stress about their own earnings and current class status but still, that knowledge that you are made is extremely powerful.

Asset distribution is tricky to measure but I think we can assume that currently in the US the top 20% have 80% of the assets. The bottom 20% have zero assets. Show me someone without assets or the reasonable hope of ever having any and I will show you a probable future convicted criminal, prisoner, gang member, etc.

Trends before the financial crisis suggested that 90% of assets would eventually accrue to the top decile. That in fact is probably the natural equilibrium of asset distribution of any economy that has private ownership and no commitment to income redistribution. (Yes I am mixing income and assets but hardly anywhere are assets taxed. Taxes favoring capital over labor necessarily drive income towards returns on assets, Then a virtuous circle ensues whereby asset holders earn more and aquire more assets.)

Since financial assets have soared so since 1980, as the entire system devoted itself to inflating financial assets the wealthy stand to lose relative to everyone else if the system fails significantly.

Rich is a very subjective term, so to try and put normative values on it is rather unproductive. To a person in parts of sub-Saharan Africa or New Guinea, myself and Mr. Yglesias are incredibly rich. To a resident of Beverly Hills California, we are not. You see, it is too subjective to put normative metrics like % of disposable income or tax bracket.

A more productive question would be: are top 10 and top 20 percent of wage earners aware that they are in such an elite percentile? Do they think of themselves as being top tier?

Re: the New York City comments above, they were partly why I said that cost of living matters. But, really, often when people say "New York", they really mean "Manhattan south of 96th Street". And in that case, living on an income in the bottom one or two quintiles has got to be really, really difficult (though possible, given rent control, the ability to fit 5 people into a one bedroom apartment, etc.).

"There's also a difference between earning $88,000 a year free and clear and earning $88,000 a year while trying to pay off college and law school debts. "

Im glad Matt gets it. Too bad my family and friends don't read The Atlantic. I suppose I should have left the idealistic legal positions to "the Rich" young attorneys.

I've been in the top 10% of my local income bracket since moving out of southern California. Although I can sense an ability to afford a certain lifestyle, I can also see that local power, a relatively unrestrained ability to act, rests with the boys and girls who control significant assets.

Ergo, my "elite" status is illusionary, a paycheck or two from a mere memory.

actually, yeah, 100K CAN be barely making it in NYC...especially in Manhattan.

example:

125K income.

no real deductions. city, state, federal income tax: 40K.

student loan payments on 160K in student loan debt: 10K a year.

rent with roommates: 2200 a month. (by yourself in my hood: 3-4K a month. yeah, you could spend 1500 in Brooklyn. maybe). 25K a year.

metrocard/taxis: 3K a year.

cost of dating/networking for a single guy (assuming 2-3 dates a week): 2400 a month -- 28k a year.

which in theory leaves 19K for vacation, clothes, furniture/electronics/food...at Manhattan prices. $10 beers anyone?

certainly not saving anything.

that's a realistic breakdown.

I would regard "rich" as a term that aims for a higher bar than "top quintile," even if you adjust for standards of living und so weiter.

I mean, if you grab a handful of people off the street, and the odds are that one of them makes more money than you, are you really rich? I'd probably put the minimum bar for what most people think of as "rich" at being top 1%, 5%, or at most 10% of whatever fuzzy income/wealth conglomeration it is that people intuitively think of.

I think the comments here prove Matt's point in a way. A lot of comments saying "157,000 a year isn't really rich" and "you can't live in NY for under 100,000 a year." Um, yes you very easily can. You're rich, get over it.

"but 100K to barely live on in NYC?"

In my defense, I was thinking Manhattan when I wrote NYC. Yes, you can live comfortably outside of Manhattan, but still in The City, on $100K. But in Manhattan, you'd have a pretty small apartment. I obviously should have been more precise in my wording. That's why I don't make a living at writing.

well, by Manhattan you mean below 96th as well....(which is why general Manhattan income figures aren't germane either. except for a couple small downtown enclaves...poor people in Manhattan are all clustered above 96th....(really more like 100th these days)

metrocard/taxis: 3K a year.

Let's see, a monthy MetroCard is $81. $81 x 12=$972. I additionally contend that it's possible to live in New York and not ever take cabs, because I've done so for ten years. There are plenty of bars in NYC--even in Manhattan--where the beers aren't ten dollars. As for spending $28K/year on one's social life--all I can say is, if I was in that position I sure as hell wouldn't be pissing and moaning about it in a public forum.

As mad6798j points out above, the degree of whiny entitlement exhibited on this thread is nothing short of astounding.

Nathan: as an admitted 2-percenter, I'm not trying to attack your math or class status, but being able to spend $2400 a month on dates is what I (or almost anyone else this side of Elliot Spitzer) would call a "comfortable" lifestyle.

Assuming I didn't cook, as many new yorkers don't, and spent $20/meal on every meal, plus $5 for breakfast, we're talking $40/day for 30 days, which is $1200/month. I'm trying to figure out how you spend ANOTHER $2400/month on top of that entertaining others.

I live as a young, decently-paid professional in DC, and while my rent is more than I want to pay, the truth is that I don't do so badly. And I wouldn't even *think* of having my food and entertainment expenses rise to the $2400/month level.

That said, lawyers are frequently constrained in that they have to constantly attend bonding-events and other outings with their colleagues at their own expense.

However, Nathan makes a good point: trying to live like the "rich" are perceived to live is a very expensive proposition, even when you make a lot of money.

Dang - 2-3 dates a week at which he's dropping $600 total. I want Nathan's social life.

What some call "whiny entitlement" is really a recognition of where the true power in this society lies. Upper middle class people have a better position than the lower middle class or the poor to see how decisions really get made in this country and to understand how far away they really are from the centers of power. No doubt someone making $250K-$400K is materially damn well-off, but their ability to actually exert any influence on society or really control their own destiny isn't generally not much better than any other wage earner. Rich=money+power. As many have already said, a big salary is great but you need to control significant assets to have power.

Shorter everyone who is 'upper middle class': There's no denying I'm in the top 10% of income and anyone with half a brain knows top 10% isn't 'upper middle' so I'll cite some local factor like 'the rent in Manhattan is high' or 'I'm the salt of the earth!' to obscure the fact that I'm definitely upper upper middle class and more than likely rich.

well...if you're not married, the alternative choice is celibacy. women cost a lot of money. at least women with careers over the age of 22.

but I think the key point is that one still has to live with roommates when making six figures here.

and, yes, there are still plenty of places with $6 beers. never mind that most of them are sports bars filled with dudes (or even the laudatory Corner Bistro with $2.50 McSorleys...also full of dudes).

Nathan: as an admitted 2-percenter, I'm not trying to attack your math or class status, but being able to spend $2400 a month on dates is what I (or almost anyone else this side of Elliot Spitzer) would call a "comfortable" lifestyle.

Um, that would only buy 2 hours of loving a month at Elliot Spitzer rates. Hardly "comfortable."

oh, I live the good life and get to indulge my hobbies. but if I instead lived the way I lived in grad school and saved money, tell me again what the point is in working this hard? people don't go through law or med or business school to not live the good life on the other end...but it doesn't change the fact that living the way people think people like you must live...leaves you living paycheck to paycheck.

for example, women have very different expectations for a grad student taking them on a date, then for a professional. that's just reality.

Nathan, you know, there are plenty of people who live in NYC who are young professionals who have much lower expenses.

And I don't think any of the first dates I had with NYC women approached $200.

This perhaps shows a few things: in America, you can reach an income that some people couldn't even dream of, and still struggle. That level of income doesn't actually buy you much influence. Without family wealth backing you up, you only get a certain amount of financial freedom when you get to early middle aged, just like most other people with a steady income. Finally, Americans spend way, way too much of their money trying to live a certain lifestyle (eg, my insistance on living in central DC rather than in, say, Rockville or Gaithersburg).

Most people think of themselves as being 3 things:

They think they are good drivers
They think they have a sense of humor
And they think they are middle class

I guess that I disagree with most of you here. If your household income is in the top 20% of the nation, you are rich. Stop bitching about cost of living or else move somewhere else. I think you'll find that your $700,000 starter home in SF buys a lot more house in Ohio.

Now, earners in the top quintile may not be wealthy. This is especially true in the African American communities where success often leads to obligations of support for extended family members. But for tax purposes, it's absurd to suggest, as Clinton did, that raising the cap on SS would negatively affect middle class Americans. I also find the claim that the AMT is increasingly affecting middle income Americans to be ridiculous. This is simply not true and it behooves liberals to say so instead of pretending that "rich" means trust fund.

An excellent book on this topic (and several others) is The Millionaire Next Door. The authors had a formula for relative affluence which took into account your current income and lifestyle. They also pointed out the negative impact of status-striving. Most of the multimillionaires surveyed in the book weren't status seekers: the drove used cars (most often a Ford F-150, IIRC), etc. The authors pointed out the status traps that the children of wealthy parents often fall into, particularly when they don't make a lot of money themselves. For example, their parents might "help" them by helping them buy a house in a neighborhood they would otherwise be unable to afford; then, to keep up with the Joneses, they feel obligated to send their kids to the same prep school; usw.

"I think the definition of rich should be this: Can you afford the annual fee at the nearest private golf course? If you can, you're rich. If not, you're not."

Eh, perhaps. But, apropos of The Millionaire Next Door, I'm sure you'll find some rich folks at your local public courses. I remember running into a very successful broker I knew from work at our local $18-for-9 holes course. A lot of affluent folks are tight with a buck -- particularly when they can get the same quality without spending more.

"A more productive question would be: are top 10 and top 20 percent of wage earners aware that they are in such an elite percentile? Do they think of themselves as being top tier?"

I agree with this. We are an affluent society. Many of my friends get along just fine on "limited" incomes. Many others think of themselves as "poor," and I find this annoying, what with all the people around us (not to mention the people in the rest of the world) who really are poor. I grew up in a relatively low-income family (though we were certainly middle class), and I've lived all of my adult life in cities with a high cost of living (NYC, SF), except for the years I spent in grad school, getting overeducated. I've never made much more than $50,000 a year. I don't have kids, of course, but I don't have anyone to share expenses with, either. To me, just being able to live independently and autonomously is a luxury, esp. when I look at (a) the rest of the world and (b) the limited range of options open to by my mom and other women of her generation.

Don't get me wrong: I do think it's often hard for people with kids or other dependents to make ends meet. But I also think that we could ameliorate a lot of this difficulty if the US could ever break free of this Republican gilded age, build a better safety net, invest in schools, infrastructure, housing, the environment, community, etc. What a pipe dream!

Tyro, we're basically in agreement.

and I'd throw out that restaurant and booze costs in Manhattan have gone up drastically in the past three years. the $34 entree is now standard.

example, on Sunday night I had a first date with a lovely young lady. drinks at the bar of a local restaurant in my corner of the WV turned into dinner. she ordered a lot. $200 before I knew it. that's the reality of Manhattan life in 2008.

Fred, you'll notice that the guy you're quoting from said you were rich if you "can" afford the annual fee at the course. Not if you actually do so.

Most of the affluent people I know are quite "tight with a buck," of course-- that's how they became affluent. :)

I've been complaining plenty about how much my salary affords, but the truth is that in 3 years, I foresee having a nice condo and a be in a position to afford a european car. Things are just tight right now because I'm in a transitional period at the moment. Once Nathan calms down, stops with the $200 dinners, pays down his debts, and buys himself a condo within his price range, he'll feel like he's doing pretty well, also.

People who have top 1% salaries for 20 years or so and save their money-- they ARE rich, and we shouldn't deny that simple fact. The ones that don't save their money? Well, they may not be rich, but they are stupid.

Tyro, there's no such thing as buying a Manhattan condo on 125K a year.

"but I think the key point is that one still has to live with roommates when making six figures here."

If one wants to live like a rich person, then yes. Otherwise, not at all.

"Rich" doesn't mean "wealthier than average." I wouldn't consider the 80th percentile as "rich." Maybe the 90th. Definitely the 95th. "Rich" just means, "more money than a normal person would know what to do with."

Since all these people are arguing, I will revise. If you need a job to support your life-style, you're not rich.

This is why I'll never move to New York: Nathan just mentioned $6 beers like they're a good deal. I don't think I've ever paid more than $4 for a domestic or $6 for a premium/import in L.A. I mean, those places exist, I just avoid them. Cocktails, I'd never pay more than $10, and then it better have the good stuff. Plus, I can go outside for a cigarette in the dead of winter.

There's a bit of a temptation to criticize Nate's lifestyle choices and tell him how to live and what expenses to cut. I'm going to try to avoid doing that here.

The point being: even the rich try seek after a lifestyle that can exceed what their salary can afford them. After all, if they wanted a more modest lifestyle, they wouldn't be so inclined to choose a profession that paid so well.

"drinks at the bar of a local restaurant in my corner of the WV turned into dinner."

That was your first mistake. First date should be coffee or drinks, or, as was the case with my girlfriend, dinner at a BYO place (not too many of those in Manhattan, to be sure, but I can think of at least one).

"Fred, you'll notice that the guy you're quoting from said you were rich if you "can" afford the annual fee at the course. Not if you actually do so."

Fair enough, I guess.

"I've been complaining plenty about how much my salary affords, but the truth is that in 3 years, I foresee having a nice condo and a be in a position to afford a european car."

You could afford a European car now, I'm sure, though perhaps not a new one. The most expensive smell in the world is that of a new car.

"Tyro, there's no such thing as buying a Manhattan condo on 125K a year."

You could afford a studio, though it might be a co-op. Or once you settle down with a woman, you could move to the mainland and buy a capacious one or two bedroom.

"There's a bit of a temptation to criticize Nate's lifestyle choices and tell him how to live and what expenses to cut. I'm going to try to avoid doing that here"

I'm not critisizing his choices. I'm just saying that he chooses to live like a rich person.

too many steves:

it's a function of real estate costs. I mean, Florent is closing cause their rent went from 6K to 50K overnight. the problem with being an island.


as for lifestyle, your peers affect that a massive amount. almost everyone I associate with makes more than me, or the same as me with no debt or the same as me and they're female.

social expenses in school are much lower cause your peers are in school. but unless you want to sit at home in your pajamas, your social peers will roughly determine your social costs.

other things: suits from the Men's Wearhouse might fly in Des Moines (if you wear something that ugly)...but not here. not when you have to dress the part.

on Sunday night I had a first date with a lovely young lady. drinks at the bar of a local restaurant in my corner of the WV turned into dinner. she ordered a lot. $200 before I knew it. that's the reality of Manhattan life in 2008.

Here's some financial advice: quit dating ill-mannered gold-diggers. Really, I'd think you were trolling if I didn't know so many real-life people who say the exact same kind of stuff.

I usually post under another name here, but don't really feel like talking about my income publicly.

I (or at least my parents, I'm still in college) make good money. Really, really good money (I think we've broken seven figures in at least one year of the last three). And while we live in a city, it has population well under a million, and not particularly high cost-of-living. We're obviously really well off. I still contend that we're not rich, per se. As a couple people pointed out upthread, what 'rich' says to me is that you could stop working entirely. And we definitely don't have that.

Second, this may well be a skewed perception based on my income level, but I'm not sure I'd even say you're upper-middle until you get into the top 15% or so. I'd have labeled the cutoff for upper-middle class somewhere around $100,000, maybe higher. To me, upper-middle class says you can afford lots of nice new things without having to worry about it--nice house, new cars, high-end electronics, and no debt (my family, for instance, bought our current house with cash. I think we've been almost entirely debt-free for over ten years). Rich means you don't have to worry about how much money you're spending--as my father's boss put it when he was building a new house, "You know, I'm not sure why I should spend $1 million for this particular feature. I mean, sure, I could, I have the money, I'm just not sure why I should bother."

Fred:

first date was drinks. when people get hungry, you have two choices, cut the date off, or get food. you're right, I could have done the first. I actually have a no-dinner for the first three dates rule with women....doesn't always work. they have an amazing ability to not have had dinner already.

um, studios start at around 500K. maybe you could find one for 350K on the UES but who wants to live there?

Since all these people are arguing, I will revise. If you need a job to support your life-style, you're not rich.

I like this metric.

You could afford a European car now, I'm sure

Theoretically, yes, but I have a mental aversion to borrowing money to buy a rapidly depreciating asset. If I were complaing "how hard it is to live" on my decent salary and mentioned the car payment on my luxury car, everyone would have the right to slap me for being such a dink.

The guy in the office next to me makes probably $100k/yr. He lives in an apartment complex near work, where he's lived for 20 years and doesn't seem to have too many expenses. He pondered buying a house, because he was getting tired of the apartment complexes. The SFHs he was looking at cost about 500k. He said to a coworker of mine helping him look, "All this mortgage stuff is too complicated. I'm just going to pay in cash."

maybe you could find one for 350K on the UES but who wants to live there?

You mean the LES.* No, Nathan, I think you are trolling--that "who wants to live there?" is just too calculatedly over-the-top.

*UES-Upper East Side. LES-Lower East Side.

James Gary:

dude, it's not like I'm hanging out at the bar at Le Cirque! NY golddiggers aren't interest in $200 dinners. you're taking them to Per Se and spending 2K on dinner (after wine).
that's reality.

and it's not like women walk around with signs on their foreheads saying "I'll split the tab" (if she's from the east coast or CA she almost certainly won't).

You mean the LES.* No, Nathan, I think you are trolling--that "who wants to live there?" is just too calculatedly over-the-top.
No, I think he means UES. There are lots of ugly highrise apartment buildings there filled with ticky tacky little apartments that all look the same. The LES is full of hip bars, clubs, ateliers, and vacant lots being developed by European hoteliers. The median price there is probably a good deal higher, as is the crime rate.

James Gary:

I'm not trolling in the slightest. the UES isn't cool to anyone under 40. no fucking way. it's also the cheapest neighborhood in Manhattan below 96th other than the far east EV or LES. roughly equivalent to Murray Hill. all frat boys and sorority girls from Jersey and Long Island.

I say that as a former resident of NoLIta and current resident of the WV.

Further to Nathan - and I certainly think he's right - I think his list omits and underestimates expense of living in NYC as a young urban professional. Taxes are underestimated - 30 percent effective rate given state and local ? No. And where are utilities - phone, cellphone, internet, cable, blackberry, gym membership, etc?

I think the evident problem here is that we're trying to use, basically, two terms ("rich" and "wealthy") to cover what should be more than two categories.

(As another example: I'm a 25 year old college graduate making about $32K, or below the nat'l average. Certainly below the average for college graduates. But I have no dependants and no debt, and while I live in a big city it's a relatively affordable big city [Chicago], so I say that I'm "fake middle class," because I probably have about as much money to spend on myself as a guy making twice as much with 1.5 kids and a wife who has a part time job.)

I joke with my dad that when he moved from San Francisco to Tampa (for work reasons) he went from "upper middle class" to "lower upper class" despite no change in income. He makes between $200K and $250K a year (it fluctuates), put me through an expensive college without taking out loans, and lives by my standards (and his) quite comfortably. BUT he works 60-90 hour weeks, travelling cross country, to make it happen, isn't close to being paid off on his mortgage, is just hitting a point where he can start really setting some money away for retirement, etc. I'm perfectly comfortable saying my dad is rich, but I'm not being an asshole to note that what most people, including me, think when we hear the word "rich" doesn't describe his life (or, by proxy, mine).

(Chris Rock: Shaq is rich. The guy who signs Shaq's checks is wealthy.)

With Nathan, I'm facing that all-to-common liberal dilemma of trying not to be judgmental while at the same time feeling the need to point out that Nathan is being a huge snob.

It strikes me that one of the best ways to get rich is to work in a profession where you don't have to deal with so many social climbers. Once you're in a mode where you're talking about how you have to "look the part" and refer to an otherwise-quickly-appreciating neighborhood with "who wants to live there?", your ability to accumulate wealth is going to be significantly hampered.

You're rich if you should be rich, given your professional assets and salary. You're rich if you could choose to be rich if you wanted to be. If you're not in a position to make that choice, you're middle class.

You can't get a $500k condo on $125k a year? I know the credit situation is bad, but it ain't that bad. If you can manage to sock away $50k, it shouldn't be that hard. Might have to cut back on the $200 dinners, certainly.

well, those are incidentals (150 a month for gym, etc.)...but you're right I underestimated the taxes. looking at my return for this year. oy!

toomanysteves:

you're not accounting for mainenance (extra high in NY because of the ground lease):

figure 1200-1800 a month. then your mortgage. not happening.

I defer to your judgment on that, Nathan. But still, man, take the girls to dive bars. If they don't like 'em, they weren't worth it anyway.

I guess I'm just jealous at the 2-3 dates a week.

I'm also starting to understand Eliot Spitzer's decisions.

"um, studios start at around 500K. maybe you could find one for 350K on the UES but who wants to live there?"

Corcoran was advertising one a couple of months ago for $250k in a doorman building in the West 50's -- 55th & 9th or something. Saw it advertised on their office window when I was walking to Zabar's.

"I'm not trolling in the slightest. the UES isn't cool to anyone under 40. no fucking way."

And yet it's full of folks under 40.

"all frat boys and sorority girls from Jersey and Long Island."

Ah, the old bridge & tunnel accusation: anyone in Manhattan who has no class is from elsewhere, right? News flash for you: almost everyone who lives in Manhattan is from elsewhere. And plenty of Manhattanites have no class. Anywhere there are young people out late at night -- whether it's the East Village, LES, West Village, UES, UWS -- wherever -- you can find a-holes. Most of them are probably Manhattanites. When you're twenty-something and know you can just stumble into a cab to get home, you're more likely to drink within an inch of your life than the B&T kids who know they'll need to be alert enough to drive back to Tenafly or catch the last train back to Garden City.

Once again Nathan, with the "who wants to live there." People who aren't as rich as you for one. Rich people like you can live wherever you want, wear whatever you want, and eat/drink wherever you want. That's fine, I don't have a problem with that. But you're still rich. Being not rich means you CAN'T live in a lot of places, nor just that you don't want to. That's why I say you're rich.

I agree about the cost of housing in Manhattan; but I don't understand why these women aren't paying for themselves after the first date. Or second... maybe. If every date is a first date, wtf dude?

"Theoretically, yes, but I have a mental aversion to borrowing money to buy a rapidly depreciating asset."

I was referring to using cash. For $10-$15k you can find a great used car. I spent $15k on a luxury car with 60k miles on it and 110k miles later, it still looks and drives great. To each his own though.

Anyhow, some meta-questions: Why does it matter who is called "rich"? Would people be so resistant to call themselves "rich" if it weren't for the Dems' class warfare rhetoric and threats of higher taxes on "the rich"? Should "the rich" be the only ones who bear the costs of government in America?

Wealth means assets. Wealth means assets. Bill Gates, always 1 or 2 on Forbes list, a list based upon assets, probably has an income below thousands of other Americans. Ditto Warren Buffet. Especially Buffet because he lives modestly. This year he was # 1 on the list. He might be # 10,000 on the income list.

Then too is the problem capital gains. I suspect a lot of capital gains are taken by the wealthy by selling assets which are not reported or counted as income. This probably depends upon the source of the data but it should be easy to understand.

For the super rich, income never approaches their comparative wealth in terms of assets. Focusing on income in fact is a powerful method of downplaying the degree of inequality.

As I said, the assets of the lowest 20% are essentially zero. Thus Gates or Buffet or other super rich individually are richer than the bottom two deciles combined. Richer than millions. Approximating the top 10% of asset holders own as much as the lowest 60% I'd guess.

Worldwide 2% own at least 70% of all assets. (I admit I'm pulling these numbers out of my ass but they approximate the profound wealth of a very few which income numbers downplays. Even if 1 billion people do live on $2 a day.

Ah, the old bridge & tunnel accusation:

The irony being that if Nathan we not part of the bridge and tunnel crowd himself, he would not be in the position he is in now, particularly since he'd be in a more socially and economically secure position than he is in now.

Ironic that social-climbing behavior makes it more difficult to actually make it to the social heights you were trying to climb to in the first place.

Alright, we shouldn't make this the "pile-on-Nathan" thread. But it does demonstrate that plenty of people who are struggling to get by actually wouldn't be if they tried not to. And plenty of people who would like to do better than they're doing now don't even have that opportunity.

Fred, I think one of the reasons people are reluctant to call themselves "rich" is because the concept of being "middle class" is embedded in the American mythology. Have a single family house and 2.5 kids and 2 cars? You're middle class!

But there's a weird schizoid thing going on where you have to be the person who's middle class but has "made it." So, sure, you might have a SFH, but you need a 5000 sq.ft. mcmansion with a "great room."

I don't get it, myself. People want to the accoutrements of wealth while at the same time be "getting by." Maybe because they see "getting by" as normal. Which makes you middle class, almost by definition. And here we get to the difference between your "class" and your "income."

Tyro--you've made a lot of excellent comments in this thread. I'd just add that Nathan's behavior (not to pile on) helps explain why we have so much inequality. A single person making 125k--Manhattan or not--is doing quite well for himself. But rather than appreciate the fact that he can have several $200 meals a week, Nathan acts like a struggling victim. I'm sure he's not alone, and that a lot of people in his social sphere either:
1) Spend lots of money because they feel they have to (how else will I meet a woman without dropping the weekly food budget of a family of four on a date?!)
and/or
2) Feel entitled/deserving/etc. to stratospheric levels of excess.

I imagine that explains a lot of inequality--well-off people buy thousand dollar suits and watches and dinners to impress each other, run out of money, and then complain that they pay slightly higher taxes than the rest of us until they get more/pay less in taxes. Etc.

Anyway, I live in San Francisco on about 60k a year, and appreciate the fact that I have a nice studio apartment, a new car and can go out with friends a couple times a week to reasonably priced restaurants while living within my budget. And I'm kind of baffled that there are people out there who feel like--god, this sucks going out to $200 meals and buying expensive things--rather than feeling like: isn't this pleasant?

"Maybe because they see "getting by" as normal. Which makes you middle class, almost by definition."

The long version is that even if you're in the top 15% of income, you need to put yourself on a budget. Otherwise you'll always choose to spend money on what you want, instead of what you need. Do I buy a couple drinks after work or a bottle of wine and extra toppings for pizza at home? Do I head out and party tonight, or do I have to stay at home? It's much better to be making these choices because the budget forces you to, not because your dwindling checking account does.

Unless you are incredibly lucky and either inherit wealth, win the lottery or invent the next Google you'll most likely become rich by saving and living below your means. It's not sexy, but it sure beats being 55 and realizing you have nothing to show for working 30+ years.

I think "rich" needs to be adjusted for residency and cost of living. Making $100K per year in Des Moines is a lot different than making it in New York City. You can barely live in New York at that salary, but you will be very comfortable in Des Moines. I think the definition of rich should be this: Can you afford the annual fee at the nearest private golf course? If you can, you're rich. If not, you're not.

That's a fascinating comment. 100K for an individual is almost certainly in the top quintile or above in NYC. WTF do you think all the people you buy stuff from make? WTF do you think the security guard who lets you into the lobby so you can to to the elevator that takes you to the receptionist (WTF do you think SHE makes) who lets you into the office where the assistant (WTF do you think he or she makes) tells you that the guy who actually makes more that 100K you came to see will be back shortly.

"Barely live?" Uneffing believable.

I lived in NYC on 12k. Worked AmeriCorps. Rented a room first on West End and 101 and then in Marble Hill.

I had a good time.

Agree with Tyro about those who to make it difficult for themselves to survive on X amount of dollars.

I choose to live in an expensive city, but it doesn't make me any less wealthy (income-wise) relative to the rest of the country. I just happen to be choosing to spend my income on high rent, high taxes, and expensive dates.

The "Who'd want to live there?" argument from Nathan has zero credibility. There are plenty of neighborhoods in non-Manhattan boroughs and in Jersey that are affordable, safe, relatively clean, and even have a semblance of culture that still allow me easy access to my high-paying job in Manhattan.

The wealthy can buy what they wish with little thought to cost. The rich can buy what median-income households wish for with little thought to cost, but many rich folks seem hard-pressed to save because they aren't content with what for much of the world is unimaginable luxery: a safe home, reliable transportation, college for the kids, occasional vacations.

I don't mean to pile on Nathan either, but something about his tone got under my skin. Maybe because it reminded me of the occasional "woe is me" feelings I've caught myself having about how much I'm spending to live in this city (and I'm in Brooklyn).

Sorry. I very seldom go off on line. But that one just got me. (And that was before I read the rest of the thread, and discovered just how awful it is to live on the UES, ahem, below 96th. Don't tell Spitzer. He's had a lousy enough day.)

The entitlement contained in this, in Nathan's and other comments is really remarkable. It does speak to Matt's comment that everybody denies being rich.

Even if you do restrict the comment to Manhattan, you've still got most people living on middle (30-70K) five figure incomes. I'd still suggest that even in the prime real estate market in Manhattan, now rightly described as south of 96, (Ten years ago, the Lower East Side, Hell's Kitchen et alia didn't qualify.) that 100K for an individual is still likely to be the top quintile.

It could be that what these guys regard as a "decent" lifestyle can only be attained by a six figure income. It remains the case that those earners are in the minority, even in Manhattan, and that the vast majority of people you encounter as you move through your day, from the starbucks barrista to the security guard at the office to the guy who delivers your tuna sandwich to the bartender who serves you your 10 dollar Corona at the end of the day are all making less than 100K.

I won't mention the guy who delivers your Financial Times, or the guy who comes around in the afternoon to shine your shoes.

(But these are all too.)

Hmm, I've always been really confused by all this.

Am I rich?

I live in Westchester County, and I attended Hackley School.

I attend the University of Chicago, where my parents pay for my entire tuition, my $505/month rent (and would pay up to $750 in rent), $100/week for food expenses, and finally, utilities.

My parents have combined salaries of something like $500,000 p.a., and up to $1 million p.a. when bonuses are factored in.

I am purposely unaware of our assets, but we own two houses and lease an apartment. Our primary residence cost us something like $1 million in 1998, and is now about $2 million.

Now, I've not been raised as rich, my parents always insist on the elusive title of "Upper Middle Class." And furthermore, one of my closest friends in high school is a member of a family that has something like $500 million in assets. Hackley is a pretty decently rich school. So I would say that I'm not rich, but since coming to Chicago, I'm not so sure.

Yes, by any measure you want to try for, Greg, you are rich. Did you regard yourself as "smart" when you scored in 98th percentile on your standardized tests?

Same thing.

Rich is simply being able to afford what you want, rather than what you need. It's very subjective. For example, right now I'm poor, but tonight I'll be rich, because I'm going to win the $220 million powerball.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Household_income_in_the_United_States#Quintiles

Data is always helpful Greg.

The cut point on the 95th percentile of household income is 157K in 2004. You're family's earnings are in top two percent. If you were measuring any other characteristic of your life, from your vertical jump to your score on the MCATs, you'd regard yourself in a very elite group. The word for that, when talking about financial resources (there is a "wealth" vs "income" issue here) is "rich."

But see, compare this to many, perhaps 50% of my high school, and I come out looking like the middle class.

So I think we need to expand our class vocabulary, because unlike one scrawny guy I knew in Mock trial back at Hackley, I don't exactly own a private helicopter, etc.

"Am I rich?"

Jesus fucking christ.

Yeah, but the measure is not relative to the people you hang out with, who are going to be of the same socio-economic status. The measure is relative to the general population.

It's a very amusing indicator that you find the private helicopter a persuasive indication of your relative deprivation. What, did you have to drive to school was Mom's old Beamer, three years old?

I drove a beat up piece of shit. :)

And it wasn't even foreign, it was a Chrysler pre-merger!

"But see, compare this to many, perhaps 50% of my high school, and I come out looking like the middle class."

No. You come out looking less rich.

Stop soiling the U of C in public kid. I have good friends who went there.

For full disclosure, we have a 1999 Toyota Sienna, a 1999 VW Bug, a beat up Sebring, and a dealer's model Audi A6 from 2006.

The Sienna's still around (used to be my father's car). The Bug's my mother's, and the Audi's my dad's. The Sebring is now my brother's at Hamilton.

The only part about UChicago I would even think about soiling is the ridiculous insistence on the quarter system. Even Mearsheimer's got his better moments.

Sorry. The helicopter thing set me off. Sounds like your parents have good sense.

Now I have a question. Where and when I grew up, kids didn't have their own cars. But that was some time ago. Do middle class kids--kids attending public schools in places like Overland Park or Euclid--have cars?

adsf(you spelled it wrong), that was precisely my reaction upthread. I'm trying to tone it down.

So, Greg, we've settled that your parents' choices for your personal transportation were not outlandish. Sorry for the distraction on that, but, as I say "But I didn't have my own helicopter" did seem a bit over the top.

How did my standardized test metaphor work for you? If you score in the 99th percentile of a test for characteristic X, wouldn't you say that you were very rich in characteristic X? And if X is "money," wouldn't you agree that you're rich?

(Which is of course the subject of Matt's post. You'd be proud of, though no doubt politely modest about revealing, your national ranking in vertical jump or 400 meter time. Why reject your national ranking when X is "household income"?)

Everyone in Westchester seems to own a car once they reach 16/17. And I am including people FIRMLY in the Middle Class. We're talking like 30-40,000 a year.

I see lots and lots of families with teen drivers, and certainly, the public school parking lots are packed even when kids live close to school

By the time you get up to income levels at Hackley, once driving is allowed in 11th grade, everyone does it. Well, except people like me, since I was raised in Manhattan, and I thought driving was ridiculous - in fact I only got a car because my Dad bought it off our grandfather to keep him from driving, because he was going blind and entering the early stages of dementia.

I wasn't talking about Westchester, but I do suspect this is generally true, given how long cars last these days, and how little they are worth after five years.

My last .02 regarding who's rich: splitting the wage earners sitting between the top 20% and %1 from the rest of the herd has been a favorite Limbaugh/GOP tactic for years, and I'm not falling for it.

The fact is, we're in the same class warfare situation we've always been in. The folks who Bush jokingly referred to as "his base" in F9/11 use the GOP to give them additional advantage.

By getting those wage earners who are "comfortable" to identify with that base rather than the trailer park residents makes their job easier. For most people, rich v. wealth is a distinction without a difference. Labeling someone making - say - 1 or 2 hundred grand as "rich" plays right into the hands of wealth.

It also sticks it to the high-but-not-stinking-rich tax bracket. When Federal, state, or local government looks for income tax revenue, the upper income/low asset folks are where the easy money is. The asset holders skate, the wage earners realize they're getting screwed, and they end up voting Republican or turning libertarian as a defense mechanism.

What, has this thread become therapy hour? "The Netroots describes its economic situation in glowing/excruciating detail"? People on this site are, for better or for worse, familiar with the Westchester prep school setting. And the DC one. And Boston. And LA.

Greg, speaking as someone from a similarly privileged background, (tho' with even humbler adolescent transportation) you are abso-fucking-lutely rich. But you knew that, didn't you?

What is it about NYC that attracts such ridiculous and ugly people? I don't like to disparage anyone on this site (except for Steve Sailor, of course) but this is disgusting. I guess I should put it down to immaturity. For future reference, Temp Anonymous, if your Dad made 7 figures (which is 2,000% of the average income in America), then he is rich. Your use of the royal "we" indicates the cluelessness of someone who has never worked a day in their life. (running mail for your Daddy's law firm in the summer doesn't count).

Gym membership? Gym membership!!! Poor you. Go outside and lift rocks. Mow a yard. Run somewhere. Good lord, man, what a bubble you live in. Boo hoo, I can't afford to sweat next to Oprah or Paris Hilton, so I'm not rich. Get real. The envy, avarice, and entitlement displayed on this thread is sickening.

I'm curious, what if we were talking about smart instead of rich? If you rank in the top 20% on your SATs, are you smart? Is there a difference between someone who gets a 1300 at Dalton Prep and someone who gets a 1300 at Crenshaw? Can't it be said that a wealth of experience is different from rich natural gifts? Yet both may reach the same SAT score. I don't really know where I'm going with this, other than I think you must rank both subjective values of riches and intelligence by comparison to the national average. If you say it's the top 10% rather than the top 20%, I'm Ok with that. But to suggest that one must be in the top .01% of income earners to be considered rich is to have no awareness of the larger world around you.

jayackroyd, I agree with everything you wrote, though you have to understand how amused I was by the line about my mother's beamer, because if she ever buys one, the Four Horsemen will be playing cards in my kitchen.

My point was that until I got out of the Northeast, I never imagined just how great the gap was. I had an intellectual understanding of being in the top percentile. Both on my own and through my parents I know a lot of obscenely wealthy people. But then I showed up in Hyde Park and now, my girlfriend of a year and a half here is middle class. Her mom stays at home, and her dad makes maybe 40-60k.

I was pretty stunned at just how stupid calling myself "Upper Middle Class" had become, because I am not remotely in the same class as my girlfriend. At the same time, I feel extremely uncomfortable calling myself rich, because on the one hand, I am not in the same boat as a lot of people I went to high school with, and on the other, I don't want finances to be a reason for a relationship.

By the latter I mean that I must always emphasize is that my parents are only footing the bill for my education. They are not funding trips to clubs or expensive dinners when they're not around or anything like that.

Basically, I would call my family rich. But I'm not independently wealthy. Moreover, in about a year's time, I'll be totally cut off financially from them until they're dead or insane. My dad's made that abundantly clear to my brother and me on many occasions. However, at the same time, I am enormously relieved, because unlike my girlfriend or my friends, I can start my post-college career with a blank slate.

I think that's the most important difference between the haves and the have-nots these days. Matt's closing sentence rings very close to home for me, but also for the people I'm around. I'm the only one who doesn't fill out the annual financial aid forms or apply for scholarships or anything.

cmholm--

It is true that wage earners at the low six figure level pay a large amount of tax. But they don't pay the highest marginal rates on earned income.

Wiki has the brackets.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Income_tax_in_the_United_States#Year_2008_income_brackets_and_tax_rates

Breakpoints are,for a household,

15 65K
25 131K
28 200K
33 358K
35 above 358k

The earner under 200K pays much less than the higher wage earner. And, remember, the claim for 100K in NYC not that it made you rich, but that you could "barely live" on it. The tax code, as structured there, hardly seems to discriminate against that under 200K household you seem to be talking about.

Your reference to trailer parks is telling. You, like the guy who can barely live in Manhattan on 100K, seem to consider being the top quintile, if not a hardship, somehow just a bit better than being in poverty. That's not so.

Now it's true that the people in this income group get treated unfairly relative to richer people who make more money by returns on wealth. But it would be a very bizarre decision to vote for a republican if you find this unfair. Republicans have made a habit of increasing taxes on high income wage earners, and lowering them on capital holders. It is democrats who argue that all income should be taxed in the same way, regardless of source. It is republicans who skew the tax code in favor of capital holders, and against wage earners at every income level.


I hope your parents' reconsider that policy, Greg. It's very hard to go cold turkey, from not having to worry about anything to having to worry about everything. I know some people who had that happen after college, and it was very disconcerting for them, and not in a valuable, learning about life kind of way.

There's nothing more valuable, in terms of lifelong income and options, than a professional degree of some kind. I'd urge you to negotiate some kind of arrangement with them to at least partially finance post-graduate study of some sensible kind. A loan to be repaid. A commitment to using the degree in some way that will give some immediate return on investment, before embarking on some entrepreneurial or do-gooder venture.

Income data are a poor measure of standard of living and economic well-being. Wage data are even more misleading. Conservatives and libertarians understand this.

Which gives them a better grasp of public policy. For example, they understand that tax cuts which give one-fifth of their benefits to the three-tenths of one percent of taxpayers who declare over $1 million in annual income are not unfairly slanted toward the wealthy.

I think part of the issue is that people imagine that being rich will feel a certain way -- and when it doesn't, somehow imagine themselves not rich. (Plus for some of us on the left -- especially having grown up working class and really not a big fan of the well to do -- finding yourself rich is somewhat shameful and thus, slightly hard to admit.)

There is also the strange phenomenon of lifestyle creep -- the luxuries that one can start to imagine are somehow normal necessities of life -- even though you know better, much better. When you adopt this world view you find, not surprisingly, that there isn't a lot of excess cash despite your lofty income. And then you can claim in your mind that you are middle class -- just struggling to pay the mortgage and educate your kid and save for retirement like all those salt of the earth types.

Republicans have made a habit of increasing taxes on high income wage earners, and lowering them on capital holders. It is democrats who argue that all income should be taxed in the same way, regardless of source. It is republicans who skew the tax code in favor of capital holders, and against wage earners at every income level.

Wrong, wrong, wrong. It is hard to disentangle the effects of each party, since it is relatively rare for one party to control both the executive branch and both houses of Congress simultaneously. The basic pattern of the past 30 years has been a lowering of tax rates across all income groups (this includes income from capital gains), but especially for lower income groups, and a shift in the total tax liabilities away from the poor and on to the rich. See this CBO document for details. The share of total federal tax liabilities for the lowest four quintiles has declined, and the decline in the tax burden has been greatest for the lowest quintile (from 2.1% in 1979 to 0.8% in 2005.) Over the same period, the share of total federal tax liabilities paid by the highest quintile increased from 56.4% to 68.7%. And for the top 1%, the total liabilities almost doubled, from 15.4% to 27.6%.

There are huge differences in cost of living between, say, Oklahoma and California. People who make $88k in Oklahoma tend to own houses on golf courses or lakes, while people who make $88k in California rent apartments (assuming they just moved there).

mq,

Your premise, assuming it is supposed to reflect reality, is false. See the CBO data.

Nathan and Greg make it easy to scoff, but at the same time, the idea that anyone making six figures is rich is silly.

Geography and cost of living does matter. Sure, I could leave the expensive market I'm in and find housing that costs about 1/3 of what it does here, but I also couldn't earn nearly as much. Local incomes and cost of living are not entirely unrelated. And not only does equivalent work pay far less in, say, Omaha, but the particular specialized work I do barely exists outside the city I'm in. My income is pretty heavily dependent on me being where I am.

Even within the market I'm, you can find relatively cheap housing if you go far enough out, but the tradeoff in commuting time is substantial. And given the ridiculous hours I have to work already to earn my top 5% income (just barely, according to the wikipedia table), commuting two hours a day would mean I hardly ever see my family. That's not exactly my definition of rich. As it is we can't afford any house around here that is not a total dive (and my standards are really not that high). It'll take several years of paying down student debt, building up a downpayment, and, hopefully, getting annual raises before home ownership is any sort of an option.

I don't live a Nathan-esque lifestyle. My wife and I share a car (a minivan with 140k miles on it). We don't go out that often, and when we do the bill is generally not more than $50 (although babysitters are absurdly expensive around here). Our apartment is nice, but not luxurious. The only bit of extravagance in our possessions is a decent plasma TV. When you balance it out against my student loans, our net worth is just north of nothing.

Now, don't get me wrong. We have a comfortable life and I'm not unhappy with my situation. But we are not rich by any definition that makes sense to me. Upper middle class? Sure. Privileged? Probably. Rich? Hell no. Someone who was rich could, at the least, pay off his student loans and buy a freaking house. Maybe in 20 years, if all goes well that label will apply...

What is it about NYC that attracts such ridiculous and ugly people?

Give me a break. The whole point of the thread is that the concept of "rich" is subjective. What the %*&$ makes your definition of rich any better than anyone else's here? Yeah, I don't believe that having a gym membership makes me "rich". What about that is "ridiculous and ugly"?

99% of the population of the United States is "rich" compared to most of the population of, say, some places in Africa. Does that make a person who doesn't consider someone making $50k rich "ridiculous and ugly"? I don't think so.

"Where and when I grew up, kids didn't have their own cars. But that was some time ago. Do middle class kids--kids attending public schools in places like Overland Park or Euclid--have cars?"

Ha! I grew up in Overland Park (suburban Kansas City), and yes, most kids had their own cars. I had a crappy one, but it was my own car.

I still live in Kansas City, but my brother lives in NYC. The difference in our salaries compared to our lifestyles couldn't be more different.

My wife and I earn about $100k/year combined and live very comfortably. The public schools are excellent. A $200k 4 br house in a nice neighborhood is easy to find. We save at least $1000/month in retirement and investments over and above our 401k. Hell, I can even play gold twice a week; that is, if I wanted to.

My brother and his wife earn about twice as much in NYC. They just bought a 900 sq. foot condo in Harlem, and, with maintenance fees, it costs over $3500/month. With taxes and other expenses, it's a real kick in the balls. When his daughter gets old enough to go to school, I really don't know what they are going to do. Private grade schools are about $25k a year.

It seems that the best way to acquire wealth is simply not to live in NYC or San Francisco.

Mixner

Yeah.

Look at the numbers. The top quintile goes from 27 to 25 percent tax rate over the period. This group is largely wage earners, like whiny and entitled?

The top ten percent, about the same, 29 to 27. But these are still largely wage earners.

Top five percent, doing a little better 31 to 28.

But now, when we get into the real capital holders, the top percentile, it's 37 to 31 percent.

I have a suggestion for Nathan. If you really have $2400 to spend each month on dates, then you really ought to allocate your spending differently than just expensive dinners 2-3 times a week.

How about this: stay in two weeks a month, and then fly you and your date to Europe for a three-day weekend once a month. For 2 grand you should be able to have a nice short little holiday in France or Italy. Every month.

That has to be a smarter way to spend your money than on $200 dinners 8-12 times a month.

99% of the population of the United States is "rich" compared to most of the population of, say, some places in Africa. Does that make a person who doesn't consider someone making $50k rich "ridiculous and ugly"? I don't think so.

If the average American went over to Ethiopia and began explaining that they weren't really rich, it would be ridiculous and ugly Al.

You know, yesterday I overheard my driver tell my doorman that I was spoiled, but I was like, ha! our Gulfstream isn't even new. You don't know what you're talking about. Then I remembered that I left my ascot at the health club so I made him drive back to retrieve it.

There are huge differences in cost of living between, say, Oklahoma and California. People who make $88k in Oklahoma tend to own houses on golf courses or lakes, while people who make $88k in California rent apartments (assuming they just moved there).

Too bad for the people who live in California. Anyone who makes $88k has more money in their 401k and gets larger SS checks than the average American family assuming both work for an equal amount of time.

Let's thank Nathan for proving the existence of the mini-baller. For you nice, well-adjusted people, it's a whole Manhattan subculture. Most members are investment bankers in their early- to mid-twenties, but other aspiring professionals can participate as well. Here's the quick guide:

How to know if you’re a baller:

1. You don’t have a savings account, just a HUGE checking account
2. You make use of private air travel
3. You have outrageously expensive clothes, all of which were given to you for free
4. You’re dating a smoking hot babe
5. You’ve never heard of a mini-baller


How to know if you’re a mini-baller:

1. You choose to live paycheck to paycheck even though you have a six figure salary. You have a 1% money market savings account with a few thousand dollars, meanwhile you overdraft your checking account on a regular basis.
2. You buy your flights on expedia but you don’t like to, you use miles to upgrade to economy plus, you buy vodka tonics on the plane
3. You have outrageously expensive clothes, all of which you paid for and most of which you buy because you saw a mini-baller the previous night who was wearing that outfit and “getting it done”
4. You say “get it done” all the time. You’re not sure what this means, but you know its important, and when you say it . . . you mean it.
5. You aren’t dating a smoking hot babe but you want to, so on saturday nights you call your mediocre looking girl friends and ask them to help you get into Marquee hoping you can meet a hot babe there. You look at the liquor list and almost order Absolut, then you remember you’re here to get it done and so you pony up for the Goose. You always hit on the waitress and you always tip her over and above her 20% grat, then usually you go home with one of your mediocre friends. You like it, but you tell other mini-ballers that you regret it.
6. You refer to yourself as a mini-baller, you tell other dudes that you’re a mini-baller and suggest to them they start calling themself a mini-baller too.

Nathan's real problem is that second-rate consulting salaries don't support even the mini-baller lifestyle. Micro-baller, anyone? Get it done!

There are people in this country who make very little money. 88K? I'd feel like a king. I live fairly well on UNDER 10K a year. You heard that correctly. I live on the poverty line. No, it isn't easy. But look here: I'm on the internet. I own my own home and a sensible car. It's getting harder than it used to be living on so little money because of rising gas and food bills.

I am sick and tired of hearing how "middle class" Americans have it hard living on salaries of 100K or so. We, in this country, live like kings and queens compared to most of the rest of the world. What we are told we need in order to live well is absurd and, quite frankly, close to immoral.

As someone who's long been aware that the salary associated with my post-law-school job will stick me right at the 95th income percentile, I have no illusions about being in the "middle class". Not sure about 80, but once you're above 90 there's absolutely no way you're in the "middle" of anything.

I think a lot of well-off people's unwillingness to see themselves as rich comes from the fact that the income distribution is so stratified. Unless you're Warren Buffet, no matter how high you go, there's always someone who's way, way, way richer than you are. If you're making $500,000 a year, there's a CEO who's making $5 million, and above him (yes, it's a him) there's a CEO who's making $50 million, and above him there's another CEO who's making $500 million, so it's hard to see yourself as "rich" when there are other people so much vastly richer than you are. And our system of class language says that anyone who's not "rich" or "poor" must be "middle class", so these people assume they must be members of that.

I think we need another term for this one, like "lower richer class."

Also, the guy who thinks life is just completely unlivable unless you can spend $2400 a month on dates needs to get his head out of his ass.

From my ridiculously poor standpoint, if you have ANY "disposable income", you're "rich."

Otherwise I tend to agree with the person who said if you have to do actual work to get it or to keep it, you're not "rich."

Clearly, the whole thing is relative. I'm poor - no question about it. I live in San Francisco on less than $10k a year. It can be done - but you won't enjoy it.

Angelina Jolie is not poor - no question about it.

But Angelina Jolie is so far below somebody like Bill Gates that she might as well be as poor as me.

And I'm obviously richer typing on this computer than some character in some Third World hell-hole who not only won't eat today but doesn't have any idea in hell when he will eat again.

So the question of "wealth", while objectively relative, is more a question of social perception. There are obviously reasons why people both want to think of themselves as "rich" compared to others, but at the same time don't want to attract the animosity that "rich" people attract from those less wealthy.

Also, people want to lord it over others by being richer, while at the same time they want to seem "morally superior" by not doing so.

It's classic alpha-beta animal behavioralism. There's a hierarchy and you have to fit in your niche, or you'll be an outcast.

Since all humans operate on the basis of trying to drag down those above them in the hierarchy while stamping on those below them in the hierarchy, clearly you have to adjust your attitude depending on which side of the hierarchy you're dealing with at any given time.

You can't be seen to be "rich" by those below you - except in your private thoughts as you stamp on them - or they'll drag you down. And you can't be seen to be "poor" by those above you who will fear you dragging them down and thus stamp on you.

Chimpanzees. There's no dealing with them.

I think someone upstream already referred to part of Chris Rock's routine on the difference between "rich" and "wealthy", but I am reminded of another. Rock had a bit where he distinguished between Oprah being "rich" and Bill Gates being "wealthy". He said something like:

"Oprah is rich. Bill Gates is wealthy. If Bill Gates woke up one day and found out he had Oprah's money, he'd jump out the fucking window. He'd say 'Aw, fuck it!' and slash his throat on the way down"

News Flash:

You people are RICH RICH RICH! $88K per year? My sister and her husband and two children live in Manhattan on $32K per year. The kids go to public school (like most of America), the parents walk or take public to work, they rent a tiny apt in a 5th floor walkup, they do their laundry at a laundromat, they fix their own food and lunches, they go to the library for books, and they go to church on Sunday. Hey! Welcome to what life is like for most people who do not read the Atlantic. (I, myself, read the Atlantic because I do not go to church on any day.)

And Matt, this whining about why $88K isn't really rich reminds me of all those RICH tv journalists & Republican fat cats who insist that a family can barely make ends meet on $200K.

This is why the poor and middle class in this country are so ill-served by government and the media - you are blind to the sacrifices most of the rest of us take for granted as part of our daily lives. We don't ask for your pity or your condescension, we just ask that you pull your heads out of your asses for a second and realize that most of the rest of us do not live where you live, nor do we want to.

"From each according to his ability, to each according to his need" (and private school, a coop, and dinner out do not constitute a "need" folks.)

Viva La Revolucion!

Tumbalina,

You sound like you have a lot of ability. I have needs for some cash. Been out of work for a while. Would you care to send me some?

For that matter, our fellow commenter Richard Steve Hack above indicates that he makes less than $10k per year. Here's his address, from his website:

588 Sutter Street, #179
San Francisco
California
United States
94109

Since your sister and her husband make more than 3x what Hack makes, can we assume they will be mailing him a check?

Wow. 100+ comments talking frankly about class in America. Cool.

That NY Times class "calculator" link upthread is pretty entertaining. I think the basic flaw is that in financial matters the scale is logarithmic. I'm over 90th pecentile by their calculation, but live in a modest house (the best I can realistically afford) surrounded by folks in the trades and a smattering of young professionals (no Oprahs 'round here) and the people a rung up the social ladder from me have 5 or 10 times the assets.

And, Fred, I think Oprah counts as wealthy by now. Isn't she in the Forbes 400?

Hey Fred,

Do what the rest of us do, get a job at McDonald's or join the clerical pool. It's shitty work, but it pays more than sitting in front of a computer whinning about not having a job.

And unlike you, Hack's not begging.

Have a little pride, fella. Go to the library (know what that is?) and borrow Ehrenreich's book Nickle and Dimed. Find out how the rest of us live. You can borrow books for free at the library, you read them, and bring them back so someone else can read them for free. Novel idea. Dare I say, almost communistic!

Si se puede, buddy. I'll see you at the laundromat, I am always happy to share a washer with a brother in need.

Isn't it to be expected that many people in the top 20% won't think of themselves as rich, in any society? If you're standing in a room with twenty people randomly selected from the populace, would you really expect to think of four of them as rich? Is one out of every five people you see rich? It seems that saying there are 60 million rich people in the U.S. (or juvenile children of rich people, etc) is a pretty high estimate for how many people are rich. Our society is, of course, very stratified, but the fact that people in the top 20% don't think they're rich is neither here nor there with respect to that fact. (In a completely egalitarian society, people in the top 20% wouldn't think of themselves as rich, because they have the same income/wealth as everyone else. In a very stratified society, with 99.999% of people living at the subsistence level and 0.001% of people receiving all of the remaining surplus, 99.995% of the top 20% won't think of themselves as rich either, because, once again, they live the same way as most people. Having people on the border of the top 20% level think of themselves as rich would require some intermediate level of stratification, but I'm not sure what they level would be, or if it actually exists in any society.

This entire discussion started in Ezra Klein's post where he said many of the people he knows with household incomes of $150K+ describe themselves as "upper middle class". These self-described upper middle classites then descended like moths into the comment threads saying "I'm not rich!". Fine, you're not rich. Just please stop calling yourself "upper middle class" because you ain't. If you're defining upper middle class as "upper middle class on my block in a highly desirable location" you're not a humble everyman, you're a tool. Nobody begrudges you your blingcome. It's your horseshit grasp of quintiles that is pissing people off. If I said point to your midsection you might point to your stomach. If I said upper midsection you might point to your chest. You wouldn't point to your neck and definitely not your freaking nose -- yet somehow that's how people are defining upper middle class income. Near the top is the upper middle.

Kevin--

Well, if they're making 200K, then they're taking home at least 100K. Call it 96K to make the arithmetic easy. That's 8K a month. Yes, 3500 dollars is a large fraction of their takehome (although I'm understating their takehome if they're spending that much on a condo they've bought; it'll lower their tax bill significantly).

But that leaves $4500 a month of diposable income for a family of three. That doesn't sound strapped to me. That's more than 50K. There any many families nearby making less than that, gross.

I say that as a former resident of NoLIta and current resident of the WV.

You're a resident of the West Village and can't find a dinner entre for less than $34? Cafe Cluny has a fixed-price menu for $30 that includes appetizer, entre and dessert. Or save money on booze by going to Tartine. Paris Commune and Cluny have good lunch/brunch menus for a reasonable price. Drinks aren't overly expensive at Art Bar and the Corner Bistro.

Of course, these options may be beneath the dignity of a gentleman who simply must spend $200 on dinner three nights a week. On the other hand, choosing to spend $200 on dinner, and then jumping onto this message board to complain about how these freeloading Manhattan bitches are always stuffing their over-entitled faces on your nickel, isn't particularly dignified or gentlemanly in the first place.

There are plenty of wonderful women in Manhattan (even downtown, even in the West Village) who aren't obsessed with money, or with getting a man to give them a free ride. If you rein in your obsession with money and status you'll find women who aren't obsessed with money and status. Or just keep seething silently--and keep trying to mask your resentment, financial insecurity and status anxiety--as yet another object of your derision moves from the lobster tails to the creme brulee.

Nathan's remark here:

figure 1200-1800 a month. then your mortgage

is simply wrong. He refers to "maintenance" in a condo. He means common charges. These common chargers are considerably lower in a condo versus maintenance in a coop, because almost all coops have a mortgage on the building that has to be shared in maintenance charges. Condos are individually owned, rather than a leasehold consequence of owning shares in a coop, and there is no underlying mortgage.

Just had a sale in the coop I live in at 515K. Maintenance for that unit is around $1000, and is somewhat above market.

In a full service building, which mine is not, the maintenance would be higher. But so would the selling price.

"And, Fred, I think Oprah counts as wealthy by now."

I agree. Chris Rock probably does too, but he was trying to be funny. That's sort of his thing.

"And unlike you, Hack's not begging."

All the more reason I expect your sister to send him a check: "from each according to his ability to each according to his needs," right? He shouldn't have to beg to get money from your rich (compared to him) sister. He's entitled to it. Viva La Revolucion!

"He refers to "maintenance" in a condo. He means common charges."

Condos can have "maintenance" charges too. Mine does. They do tend to be significantly lower than maintenance charges on a Coop, because Coop maintenance charges include an underlying mortgage on the building (for this reason, they also tend to be mostly tax deductible).

joejoejoe,

You're right, people who make $150K/year aren't upper middle class - they're peons. At least in Massachusetts anyone who makes less than $300K is a peon, and in terms of social status not much different from someone who makes $50K. It's all about power, not the money.

I say that as a former resident of NoLIta and current resident of the WV.

You're a resident of the West Village and can't find a dinner entre for less than $34?

Whiny entitlement, indeed. A week ago. Ate in Chinatown, a fine meal, so full I was bulging, a little over $20 for me and my wife. A Polish diner alone two nights ago, about $12, even more full than in Chinatown. And so on. Poor people, by the way, eat at home, as I do. It's not so hard. The only reason a person would frequently pay $34 dollars for an entree is that that person is rich, not because it's impossible to avoid. Cripes.

Fred, if you knew something about NY you would know that I was saying all the frat boys live on the UES or in Murray Hill. that's why those neighborhoods aren't cool. that's where all the b&t who live in the city live.

That's hilarious. What a bizarre little sub-culture you live in, Nathan. Think I'll swing by Elaine's tonight, and hang with the frat boys, and the bridge and tunnel people.

I guess you can officially label Spitzer a frat boy. But I doubt his neighbors qualify.

One of the appeals of living up here is that there isn't much raucous partying in the night, other than the dread March 17th.

Look at the numbers. The top quintile goes from 27 to 25 percent tax rate over the period. This group is largely wage earners, like whiny and entitled? The top ten percent, about the same, 29 to 27. But these are still largely wage earners. Top five percent, doing a little better 31 to 28. But now, when we get into the real capital holders, the top percentile, it's 37 to 31 percent.

So what? That's a reduction in their tax rate of 16%. That's smaller than the tax rate reductions for all of the lowest four quintiles. The lowest quintile had its tax rate reduced by 46%, the second quintile by 31%, the third quintile by 24% and the fourth quintile by 18%. So, contrary to your claim, tax code reform over the past 30 years has tended to favor income from wages over income from capital gains. This trend is even clearer if you look at tax liabilities rather than tax rates. The tax burden has shifted massively from poor and middle-income Americans, little of whose income comes from capital gains, to upper-middle and wealthy Americans, who are much more likely to get a significant share of their income from capital gains.

A lot of this discussion reenforces my point that it's all too easy for working people to tear into each other. Classic.

Again, if you depend a wage for a living, you're working class. You may live an under, middle class, upper middle class, or wealthy lifestyle, but that's a separate issue that we've enjoyed beating to death. Well, I have.

The Chris Rock comment is right on (Shaq v. who signs his check), even if he then went overboard with the Gates v. Winfrey bit.

The tax burden is all headed for the upper-middle wage earners. The Cato Institute and Limbaugh enjoy lumping the top 20 or top 10% of wage earners together, because it hides the advantages that the top 1% are enjoying.

Anybody who lives off of capital gains has nothing to whine about, unless they assume the government of the republic that enables them to do so well requires no funds:

1978 39%
1982 20%
1987 28%
1997 20%
2003 15%

Obviously, there is nothing to the Clinton meme that Obama's net supporters are nothing more than affluent hipsters, trustfunders, bon vivants and sybarites.

The tax burden is all headed for the upper-middle wage earners. The Cato Institute and Limbaugh enjoy lumping the top 20 or top 10% of wage earners together, because it hides the advantages that the top 1% are enjoying.

Wrong, wrong, wrong. Between 1979 and 2005, the share of total federal taxes paid by the upper middle (fourth) income quintile declined, from 21% to 16.9%. The share also declined for all lower quintiles. Only for the highest qunitile has the share increased. And for the superrich, the increase in the tax burden has been the greatest of all. The share of taxes paid by the top 1% has almost doubled, from 15.4% in 1979 to 27.6% in 2005.

Nathan, if they live on the UES how can they be B&T?

More relevant Chris Rock, from Wikipedia, regarding his hometown, the B&T enclave known as Alpine, NJ:

In his 2008 No Apologies Tour, Chris Rock mentions that he lives in a $3 million house in Alpine, New Jersey. ("Hate the game - don't hate the player!" Rock then retorts to his astonished audience.) Rock then goes on to say that only three of the greatest living black artists, Mary J. Blige, Jay-Z and Denzel Washington can afford to live in his neighborhood. He then asks the audience if they know what his white next-door neighbor does for a living. Rock screams, "He's a dentist... a fucking dentist! What is he - the world's greatest dentist? He'd have to have invented teeth!"

"And unlike you, Hack's not begging."

I've been underemployed, unemployed, on Welfare several times, and several times homeless, but while I've occasionally borrowed I've never actually begged. Even if I did rob two banks, the payback for that made the take rather considerably less than minimum wage.

However, since I need to buy a new computer (this one is five years old and won't play high-def music videos without stuttering), donations would be gratefully accepted.

Or even ungratefully accepted.

What I don't do is assume that I need to eat out every meal of every day of the week. I can't imagine how anybody can survive on any salary with that practice. I occasionally go out for a large all-meat topping pizza, or even a Burger King Whopper, but that's about it. Spend $30 on a meal? That's insane...

I also don't smoke, drink or do drugs. That has probably saved me scores of thousands of dollars in my lifetime (not to mention car accidents, arrest for possession, and cancer.)

My only vices are pizza, ham salad sandwiches, buttered popcorn and ice cream, and lack of exercise.

Oh, and ketchup on steak.

Give me the same income somebody like Matt has and I'd be so efficient with it, I'd be nearly as capable as Bill Gates is with his billions.

Mixner writes:

Between 1979 and 2005, the share of total federal taxes paid by the upper middle (fourth) income quintile declined, from 21% to 16.9%. The share also declined for all lower quintiles. Only for the highest qunitile has the share increased. And for the superrich, the increase in the tax burden has been the greatest of all. The share of taxes paid by the top 1% has almost doubled, from 15.4% in 1979 to 27.6% in 2005.

You would think that people who feel more sophisticated than kneejerk liberals would take the time to understand what they're writing. But interestingly they simply feel complacent to be kneejerk in the opposite direction.

Some rather important facts:

1) Personal income taxes do not even make up 40% of federal government income.
2) Very regressive payroll taxes account for about 32% of the federal government income.
3) It is true that there are also progressive estate taxes.
4) The primary reason the top 1% is paying so much more in income taxes is that they are making so much more in income!

But yeah Mixner, you're not spinning, you're bringing much-needed objectivity to this discussion.

"2) Very regressive payroll taxes account for about 32% of the federal government income."

This is misleading.

You are referring to the Social Security (OASDI) portion of the payroll tax here, which is capped. The Medicare portion of the payroll tax is uncapped (even so, this tax covers less than half of Medicare costs). The Social Security portion is capped because the benefits are capped: a retiree who made $100k per year gets the same Social Security payments as one who made $300k per year. Social Security benefits are also highly progressive. According to the CBO,

"For people in the bottom fifth of
the earnings distribution, the ratio of benefits to taxes is almost three times as high as it is for those in the top fifth."

Sure the Social Security benefits are somewhat progressive, but the taxes are not. And that was my point. Poor people don't pay much in federal income taxes, they pay payroll taxes. And they pay a higher percentage of their income in payroll tax than rich people do.

To talk about the tax burden of the rich while ignoring (1) regressive taxes and (2) changing shares of income is simply ridiculously dishonest. For completeness we should also add in the estate tax and sales and local taxes.

"Sure the Social Security benefits are somewhat progressive"

They are highly progressive for the lowest quintile of income earners: they get three times the benefit per tax dollar that the highest quintile gets.

"but the taxes are not"

Look at the CBO effective tax rate numbers. The lowest quintile's effective social insurance tax rate was actually less than the effective tax rates for the next three income quintiles. The only reason the top quintile has a lower social insurance tax rate is because, again, their Social Security benefits are capped: no matter how much they earn, their Social Security benefits won't be any higher than someone who earned the maximum Social Security wage base. Stephen Spielberg won't get a bigger Social Security check than someone whose average earnings are ~$100k.

More importantly, the total effective federal tax rate (taking into account all federal taxes including the payroll tax) is highly progressive at all income levels, because of the extreme progressiveness of the income tax (e.g., the bottom 40% of earners have negative income tax rates). So, for example, the total effective federal tax rate for the lowest quintile is only 4.3%, while it is 25.5% for the highest quintile.


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